giving up judging

I just wrote a post and lost it in cyberspace.

I wrote about how it's easier said than done. To give up judging, that is. One think that was particularly hard for me to give up is that I want to be what society's image of a "good person" is. It's very reassuring to be apace with society's image. However, what if your emotional or physical make-up doesn't match society's current trend? Really we should give up trying to be society's "good person" and be the best person we can be. But what if society's opinion is rather important to us? What if we need approval?

So I just wanted to mention that it may not be so easy.